Letting go...

Letting go to make room for…

 There comes a time in our lives when we have earth shaking, ground breaking opportunities that come into our lives.  Growing pains so powerful that we can’t even see the fruition taking place in front of our eyes.   Sometimes we refer to them as, mistakes.  Or as my ego has been calling it, my failures. 

We naturally are attracted to seeing the things in our lives that are “going wrong.” Simply because we don’t have enough tangible things, our lives are not as meaningful as the person next to us.   In one fell swoop I have “lost” the familiarity in my life.  The life I had build for myself has now been taken away from me.  I have lost my identity of who I am as a human, as a woman.  How terrifying, right? 

Wrong. I was allowing myself to identify my self- worth by the physical things in my life. As I shifted from victim mode and sifted through the pain from loss, I realized I am evolving.  Remember, everything is energy.  And energy cannot be destroyed nor created, only TRANSFORMED.  No one has taken anything away from me.  My life is simply, transforming.  Talk about a Mind shift to wrap your brain around.   Remember the ego hates change. It hates anything unfamiliar or outside of our comfort zones.  So, of course my ego is wounded,it has no idea what is happening, it’s the unknown.  That fight or flight reactive system is lighting up.

The difficult part about getting through heartbreak is accepting the surrender of not knowing your next move.  But the beauty in this, is now you can consciously create and then step into the life that is waiting for you.  What was, is no longer serving you.  It’s like shedding a layer of yourself.  The universe has a funny way of providing you with exactly what you need.  And whatever awaits the next phase of your life is always serving you in a way that will get you closer to your higher self.  The only reason it is wearing the mask of pain is because the ego is making you believe you are in the process of losing.  Our importance is not measured by the wealth we have.  Regardless of what stage we are in, we are significant beings. We are here to help each other evolve.  When you view others as such, you open a whole new world of beauty and understanding.  You appreciate them for exactly who they are and you do the same for yourself.